When you lose a grandparent, it might be your first experience with death. It is for many people. If your parents are having a hard time dealing with the death of their parent, you might work with funeral homes in Shakopee, MN yourself to make the arrangements. You can take the reins and step in and do things they don’t feel capable of doing at this point. It can be a great way to support them during this hard time, even though you are grieving as well. Here are a few tips to help you get started:
Tip 1: Look At The Budget
You may not realize at first that one of the first things you need to do is look over the budget. Funerals can be expensive and when you want the best for a loved one, the costs add up quickly. Instead of choosing things you want for them and then realizing you can’t afford it, take a look at the budget first. Your loved one may have left funds behind to cover the services. How much? If your parents are paying, what can they afford? Decide on a budget and tell the funeral home upfront so they can offer you packages and suggestions that you can afford.
Tip 2: Consider The Guests
You will want to decide who all is going to be invited to the funeral. What would your grandparent have wanted? What would be most supportive to your parents? Some people just want close family and friends and there’s nothing wrong with that. Others want anyone and everyone to have the chance to honor their loved one, so they open their services to the public. You want to have a general number in mind so you can choose the right venue and have a reception ready for the right amount of people.
Tip 3: Decorating The Service
Once you choose whatever type of service you want to have, you will want to personalizer it and decorate the space to make it look like a service for your loved one and not something generic. Many people put together a memorial table and/or slide show with pictures of their loved one. People also often use flowers and wreaths, which can be costly, but you can also utilize the flowers that guests will inevitably send.
These are a few ideas to help you get started on working with funeral homes in Shakopee, MN for your grandparent’s final service. Keep in mind that funeral homes understand that not everyone has planned services before. The professionals at Ballard-Sunder Funeral & Cremation will be very patient, supportive, and compassionate throughout the process, whether you know what you want yet or not. Give us a call at (952) 455-1202 and we’ll help you in any way we can. You can also set up an appointment to talk to our funeral director and discuss certain details. We’re located at 833 Marschall Rd Shakopee, MN 55379 and you can get info on line too at https://www.ballardsunderfuneral.com/
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