There are distinctive parts of traditional final services that can help you to feel closure and say the final goodbye you need when a loved one passes on. Funeral homes in Chaska, MN often put together visitation services, funerals, and then burial services. When you approach a visitation service, you might feel uncomfortable with the idea of the service. Or, perhaps you haven’t been to one in a long time, or ever. Here are a few things you will want to know about how things operate so you are more comfortable.
Formal Wear Isn’t Required
Funerals are generally traditional and require nice attire, but visitations aren’t nearly as formal. You don’t have to dress nearly as formally as you might for the funeral. While you don’t want to come through in a tank top and shorts, if you are coming from work and dressed in something casual, that’s okay. The visitation is more of an open house and you can come and go as you please. The family understands that you may not have changed for the event and that’s okay.
Come And Go As You Please
Visitations are open houses with a time range involved. There might be a two or three hour window and you can stop by at any time in that window. You don’t have to stay the whole time, in fact, you shouldn’t. Plan on being there for 20-30 minutes and moving on with your day. You don’t have to worry about being there at an exact specific time as long as you are within the window the family set.
Approaching The Casket Isn’t Necessary
While the point of the visitation, for many people, is to see the person who has passed on, say goodbye to them, and get closure on their death. But you might go to tell the family you are sorry for their loss. You might not know the person who died, but rather want to attend to support the family. Or, you might know the person and just don’t want to see them that way. All of that is okay and you aren’t required to approach the casket. You can, if you’d like, but it’s not something that is an absolute must for everyone in attendance.
Talking To The Family Is Nice
Part of the reason to attend a visitation is simply to talk to the family members who lost their loved ones and to share your condolences with them. You will want to let them know you are sorry for their loss and that you have been thinking of them. There might not be time to talk to them at the funeral if you are able to attend, so speaking to them at the visitation can be nice.
When you go to the funeral home in Chaska, MN for a visitation service, it’s nice to know a few things that you can expect. The professionals at Ballard-Sunder Funeral & Cremation are here to answer further questions if you have them before you attend.
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